My baby is no longer a baby, and this is very difficult for me to accept. I still call him angel-baby when I stroke his hair or hug him. I still murmur ‘sweet baby,’ to him as I comfort him. But language cannot hold the truth at bay: My child is a 30 lb. toddler. He’s strong-willed, and creative, and very funny. He has mad language skills. Yesterday, when I asked him if he was ready for bath-time, he threw a casual…